"All the world is made of faith and trust and pixie dust."  – JM Barrie


Sometimes, love is hard and scary.  I'm not talking about romantic love, I'm talking about love in every sense of the word, every place in which we are called to be authentic with others and even with ourselves.  We open ourselves up, we lay our emotions and our souls bare and hope and pray that our openness and vulnerability will be met with respect and tenderness.  The world is not always so kind.  Every extended hand demands that we take a leap of faith.

Recently, I recalled something that struck me so hard when it happened, that nearly 20 years later, I am filled with tenderness when I think about it.  One ordinary day, I was driving to the grocery store.  It was spring.  The earth was awakening from its winter slumber.  I was noticing signs of new life all around me.  Migratory birds were returning to the area, drawn by the numerous woods, ponds, lakes, habitats that our region provided to them.  While driving down Emerald Lane, headed to the grocery store on that seemingly ordinary day, a small bird flew into the windshield of my car.  The thump was so forceful, it startled me.  I didn't see the bird coming, and I wasn't even sure exactly what I had hit.  I stopped the car and approached slowly.  There in the parkway, lay the trembling bird who had flown into my car.  It was a little warbler, and it was hanging in the balance between life and death.  I bent down and gently picked it up.  It was too injured to try to move.  It surrendered to the contact between us.  The warbler lay in the palm of my left hand, trembling and gasping for breath.  I could see its chest rising with each labored breath.  I sat down in the grass and held this dying creature with all the tenderness I could summon.  My heart was open and filled with the grace of the moment.  I whispered a prayer of sorrow that his life was coming to an end and wished him a safe passage to the other side.   A few seconds later, his tiny body stopped trembling.  I cried.  The great and final Stillness had descended upon him.  He was quiet.  No more labored breathing, no more uncontrollable shaking, no more fear.  I sat motionless, aware of the breath going into my lungs, while his had stopped; aware of the beating of my heart, my on-going consciousness; aware that his spirit had flown away on the humid, spring breeze.  I basked in the mystery of this fragile thing we call life, how there are so many tiny yet profound connections that happen along the journey, and how it can be extinguished so quickly.     

Mary Oliver says, "I'll take grace...  You can have all the other words– chance, luck, coincidence, serendipity.  I'll take grace.  I don't know what it is exactly, but I'll take it."  Connecting with this warbler, holding him as his heart stopped beating, trusting in the moment, being open to its ripeness and potency...  That is what grace feels like to me.  

In making photos for my series "Where Love Resides," I am exploring everything that is connected to the notion of love.  I cannot separate love from trust or faith or mystery or grace.  Grace is like a love letter from the universe, one that is sprinkled with pixie dust and drifts down from the heart of the endless sky.  Sometimes it comes like a feather floating on the breeze; other times it's a bird smacking into your windshield on a grey spring day.

Until next time...


Morning in the Garden of Memory

Happy accidents sometimes arrive when we open ourselves up to the process of experimentation and let go of control.  Yesterday, I decided to try out a technique to reclaim the negatives of Fuji FP 100-C peel apart film.  I had already intended to use the positives in another project, and wanted to see if the reclaimed negatives would be visually interesting of just a bit... blah.  

To be honest, the film itself doesn't really excite me all too much.  I use it because it is reliable.  After investing in packs of expired Polaroid film, only to find that the film is not usable, I wanted some certainty that at least a photo of some kind would come out of my camera, and so I asked for some Fuji film for my birthday.  

But last night, as I scanned the recovered negatives and saw the results on the computer screen, I almost fell out of my chair.  The colors are unreal, the bleach cleaner having shifted them and destroyed to some extent the fragile emulsion.  A lot of the detail that is visible in the original photos has been lost, but these scans have the ambiance of old pictorialist images.  I could not be happier with the results.  



The rest of the series is visible on my gallery page.

Here's to happy accidents!

Until next time...


My Wild Nature: Nest

“Probably one of the most private things in the world is an egg before it is broken.”

M.F.K. Fisher

“The doors to the world of the wild Self are few but precious. If you have a deep scar, that is a door, if you have an old, old story, that is a door. If you love the sky and the water so much you almost cannot bear it, that is a door. If you yearn for a deeper life, a full life, a sane life, that is a door.”

Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

The concept of a nest has intrigued me since childhood, conjuring up notions of something small, cozy, private.  It is usually hidden from prying eyes, isolated in boughs and branches, offering a safe vantage point from which to view the world.  Protection, safety, comfort, a mama bird and her little ones.


I made this series with the intention of helping me to cultivate and express what is sacred to me.  In looking at the photos a couple of months after I created them, they still speak of the divine, but in a different way.  I cannot separate them from my grief and healing process related to the death of my son, from my desire to hang onto him for just a bit longer, from my efforts to maintain some sort of connection to him, despite the nine years that have passed since his death. 

Grieving is about hanging on and letting go at the same time.  We hang onto the significance of the person we lost.  We hang onto memories and to what those memories mean to us.  We let go of their physical presence and learn to reconstruct our lives and ourselves without them.  That is the task of healing, learning to live without someone or something to which we were attached, learning to continue to go on with life, despite the achingly empty, black hole that fills our chest.  We learn to live without their smile, without hearing their voice on a daily basis, without hearing their laugh echo through the house.  We hang onto tiny details, like how my son liked to eat pineapple on his pizza.  Or the sound of the rhythm of his footsteps as he walked across the hardwood floor.  Or the way that, at age 17, when we were taking the train to Chicago, he leaned his head on my shoulder and fell asleep.  I can still smell his leather jacket when I think about that train trip.

Sometimes those memories make us smile; other times they make us cry.  Tears are a part of healing, signaling that something touched us in a way that goes deeper than words.   We often cannot find the words to describe our emotional states, and therein lies the beauty of art.  


As Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes says, scars are portals to the wild self.  The scar on my abdomen, which resulted from the emergency C-section during the birth of my son, is such a doorway.  It is one tangible connection to him which I carry with me everywhere.  We are inseparable.  I can touch the scar, and I remember him being inside my belly.  Having carried a child creates a relationship with that another human being that is unlike any other.  No one knew my son in the way I did or for as long.  I had a nine-month advantage.  He and I shared a secret knowledge of one another, a private connection that endured beyond the cutting of the umbilical cord.  

And so, in connecting to my wild nature, I reach out to the mother part of me, the protectress, the nurturer, the wise woman, the mama bird who tends to her nest and her little flock.

Until next time...


My Wild Nature: To Seek the Light

“But I also say this: that light is an invitation to happiness, and that happiness, when it's done right, is a kind of holiness, palpable and redemptive. ”

Mary Oliver

 The caress of light, the kiss of shadow

The caress of light, the kiss of shadow

Light is an ode to life in general.  It fills us with awe, with warmth, with hope.  We gaze in wonder as the Perseid meteor showers traverse the skies in early August, their tails flowing behind them like glowing kite strings.  We seek the golden warmth of the summer sun on the beaches, as the waves crash around us and the squeals of children’s delight fill our ears.  The light soaks into our skin, and we wear the afterglow for weeks.  After the deepest, darkest, most restless night, morning light comes as a balm of healing.  It creeps through the cracks in the shutters, reaches under the curtains, tiptoes across the bedroom floor, and kisses us softly on our weary and half-open eyelids.  Another day has come, and though we are heavy with fatigue, there is a certain grace in as we are enveloped in the softness of the morning light and we slowly emerge from the fog of a sleepless night.  Light keeps us awake, gives us life.  

We need the darkness too, the shadows, for that is what frames the light, giving it shape, boundaries, texture.  There is something sacred in the dance of these two partners.  One leads, one follows.  The roles reverse.  They twirl and shift and in the end, each one takes a bow.  Darkness speaks of quiet, coziness, a withdrawl from the world.  When darkness falls, we go inside, to places where we are safe and protected.  We slow down, we quiet ourselves.  We do our little evening rituals, enjoying a meal, cleaning up, settling in under the covers to read before drifting off to sleep.  Light may gives us life, but dark gives us much-needed rest.  Either one, all the time would be torture.  As in most things, balance is what we need.

There are varying degrees of light and dark:  neither is absolute.  In our modern world where everything is lit up at night, there are few places on earth where light pollution does not exist.  Cities emit a glow that reaches far into the surrounding countryside.  The sad thing is that all of this diminishes the visibility of a natural source of night light, the stars.  I once lived in the middle of a national forest, 25 miles away from the nearest small city.  It was dark.  Really dark.  I loved the clarity and the brilliance of the stars, especially clear on cold winter nights.  The darkest time of the year has its moments of brightness too.

Though I appreciate the loud brilliance of the summer sun, I  usually prefer the subdued, oyster light of winter.  The kind produced on dreary, rainy days, that flows into my living room and spills gently across the floor.  It was this light that inspired the first photo in my diptych above.  The other photo is a double exposure that speaks of merging with the light, of becoming one with the shadows.  It was also taken on a dreary day, just before the rain started falling.  

My wild nature seeks both the light and the shadow.  She seeks to feel the warmth of light glowing inside and to give it an outward expression.  She seeks to nurture the flame in others too.  Light begets light.  Making art gives others the permission and inspiration to do the same.  The sacred connections between us are not just limited to something tangible.  And so I put this out there, hoping that it may somehow inspire you to nurture your own light, while embracing the shadows that cradle it.  

Until next time...



Resurrecting Jezebel

Artist's Statement for my new series: 

Women receive the message from a very young age that their bodies are not their own.  They exist for the pleasure of others; their role is to be pretty and pleasing, easy on the eyes.  And the standards for what ideal beauty is become narrower and more unrealistic all the time.  In adulthood, women again receive the message that their bodies are not their own.   Choices regarding their bodies, such as access to birth control, their right to choose to terminate a pregnancy, are regulated by male law-makers, and are still very controversial issues.  Being female is seen as a liability by insurance companies, further reinforcing the second class status of women.  Their bodies may be considered the property of their husbands, boyfriends, partners.  They may be told how to dress, how to wear their hair, when they "need" to lose weight.  And their choices may be dictated by officials in the church, who affirm the notion that the function of women is to serve men and to pay for the sins of their mothers.  Any one remember that apple?  

Women who take pleasure in their bodies and in their sexuality are seen as "sluts."  If we don't find sex to be enjoyable, we are "frigid."  Or if our orientation is toward other women, it is because we haven't had a "real man" before.    

When a girl or a woman is sexually assaulted, she may lose all connection with her body, which is the site of her wounds, though they are most likely the type that leave scars on her psyche rather than on her body.  The body is still the site of the trauma, and the body holds those memories in its cells.  Instead of seeing her body as the temple that is is and something sacred and valuable, she sees it as the source of her pain.  She may lose touch with her sexuality, which she has come to see as something dangerous.  Her sexuality may have been blamed by her or by others for whatever evil was done to her. "If you weren't so attractive, so hot, so inviting, this wouldn't have happened.  It's not my fault.  I couldn't help myself.  You came onto me..."  And she is left thinking, "I came onto you?  Really?  I was only eight years old..."  
Using a Polaroid 110A camera and expired Polaroid 669 film, this series explores the myth of Jezebel, the woman who led men to worship false gods by virtue of her unrestrained sensuality,  It explores connotations of the "loose woman."  The expired film and vintage camera give the series the effect of an underwater dream sequence.  "Resurrecting Jezebel" is a rejection of the notion that women exist only to be admired for their physical beauty.  It is a rejection of the male gaze which has dominated the world of art since time immemorial.  It is a rejection of the notion that feminine sexuality is dangerous and needs to be subjugated.  And it reflects the process of healing, of reclaiming what has been stolen, of learning to be present in the body, in the moment, learning to appreciate the gifts that healthy sexuality can bring.

Until next time...


Eugenia Morphea

Broken, torn, tattered wings....

I wonder if they feel phantom pains,

like limbs that have become paralyzed,

those impulses and spasms and aches 

that seize us in our sleep,

that awaken us with an embrace that burns and screams,

"Don't forget me.  I am still here."  

I wonder if they guard deep in hollow spaces of their cells

the memories of flight.

the freedom they once knew as they stretched and raised and lowered

these wings, propelling a body through the air,

riding the wind currents of dreams and desire.

 Of Angels and Insects:  Memories of Flight

Of Angels and Insects:  Memories of Flight

Until next time...


Reconstructed photos

One of the best things about instant photography is the way the film lends itself to being manipulated by hand.  These techniques can be challenging, but they also a great part of the charm of this type of photography.  That is one of the things that allows us to make truly one-of-a-kind pieces of art.  

So, today, I will show you an example of "before" and "after."  Let's start with after.  I happen to find it more interesting, but you can judge for yourself.  

 Des fleurs de mon jardin  (Some flowers from my garden)

Des fleurs de mon jardin  (Some flowers from my garden)

This photo collage was made by placing washed, positive, color transparencies over the top of black and white base photos, one that was just a photo of lace, the other, hand-written text.  The pansies had been pressed, and when dried, attached to the photos to playfully echo the little pots of pansies in the foreground of each photo.  I like the softness of the colors and the dreamy mood given by the transparencies.

Next, the originals...

 Languid morning

Languid morning

And while I love the golden tones of these photos, the others images send my imagination on a voyage in a way that is completely different.  I like how the flowers and the body flow into one another, as if the legs had become the stem, or the flowers had become the torso and the face. It further reinforces the metaphor of femininity as a flower, playing on juxtapositions of strength and fragility, on the ephemeral nature of the life of all things.   

These photos are stripped down to their bare essence and rebuilt, thanks to the magic of scotch crystal tape.  Reconstructing photos with transparencies, playing with different compositions, layering them over different photos, depending on how I am feeling that given day, all of this hands-on work is one of my favorite parts of instant photography.  I love seeing the white stuff that separates the positive and negative halves of the photo come off with a wipe from the sponge.  I like the smooth feel of the transparencies after they have dried.  And I love the process of arranging and changing things around, of rebuilding photos again and again as new possibilities emerge.  And in this case. the possibilities truly are endless.  

Until next time...



I tucked those moments into the scrapbook of my mind, preserving them for safe-keeping. They were pressed carefully between the pages, which is what I had done with the single, pink rose you had given me the first time we met.  A single rose is perhaps one of the most elegant gifts one can receive.  There is abundance contained in the mysterious folds of her petals, in the tiny secrets she holds close, in the delicate sweetness of her scent, more poignant than dozens of blooms.  

 Opening the door to the garden of memory

Opening the door to the garden of memory

And so the memories were preserved.  Those carefree spring days in Paris, the picnic on the Quai François Mitterrand, the hidden courtyard parks in the Marais, the Pont Bir Hakeim, the Galérie Vivienne, the steps and passages in Montmartre, where all paths lead to Sacré Cœur...  In our first two weeks together, hand-in-hand we traversed the city.  

You wanted to share it all with me., all the splendor of your beloved home. We slept so deeply each night, exhausted by days filled with walking and fresh air, nights filled with moments of unleashed desire. 

Paris will never exist in my mind without you.  I learned to see her through your eyes, to taste her through your kisses, to caress her with your hands...



The April theme for the 12.12 Project was Nostalgia.  The first photo of this post was my submission for that theme.  

Until next time... 


The story of a life

Our lives are made up of a thousand passages across the seas of birth and death, playing out again and again, in endless motion, like the movement of the hands of the clock, like the comings and goings of the seasons.  Each winter gives way to a new spring, each ending, a new beginning.  And so it goes.

There is poetry in the progression, magic in the emergence and calm in the senescence.  


Last fall I gathered some fresh crabapples, bitter, nearly inedible fruit, to use in some photos.  Their colors speaking to me of the brighter days of autumn.  I stuck them in a paper sac, along with other treasures gleaned from walks along the banks of the Seine near my home.  And there the sat, during the long, grey, Parisian winter.  

Spring came, as it always does, and with its return, the crabapples blossomed once again, pale pink blossoms, luscious crimson buds.  Wanting to capture and safeguard some of their essence, I snipped a few branches and brought them home to photograph.  

It was then that I remembered the fruits I had collected last fall.  The paper sac was still on top of my armoire, thankfully undisturbed by our curious, height-seeking kitten.  She had left my sac of treasures alone.  I pulled the crabapples out and they were completely shriveled on the stems, but, to my pleasant surprise, well-preserved.  And as you can see, a photo series was born.  

 Life story, part I:  Waiting  "It is at the edge of the petal that love waits."  ~William Carlos Williams

Life story, part I:  Waiting

"It is at the edge of the petal that love waits."  ~William Carlos Williams

 Life story, part II:  Opening  "My body's been touched a thousand or more times, but I am craving something so much deeper than that.  I desire to be felt, right down to the core of my soul and the corners of my heart.  That's what love is all about, isn't it?  Cracking yourself open to the possibility that it could change your life."  ~ Nikki Rowe  "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to bloom."  ~ Anais Nin   

Life story, part II:  Opening

"My body's been touched a thousand or more times, but I am craving something so much deeper than that.  I desire to be felt, right down to the core of my soul and the corners of my heart.  That's what love is all about, isn't it?  Cracking yourself open to the possibility that it could change your life."  ~ Nikki Rowe

"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to bloom."  ~ Anais Nin


 Life story, part III:  Sensual decay  “Decline is also a form of voluptuousness, just like growth. Autumn is just as sensual as springtime. There is as much greatness in dying as in procreation.”  ―  Iwan Goll    

Life story, part III:  Sensual decay

“Decline is also a form of voluptuousness, just like growth. Autumn is just as sensual as springtime. There is as much greatness in dying as in procreation.” 
― Iwan Goll


In this season of growth and promise and abundance, I am reminded of the fact that the wheels are forever in motion.  This prompts me to slow down and savor.  And photography gives me a vehicle for preserving the character of the moment.

Until next time,